March 9th, 2010
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Free love? As if love is anything but free. Man has bought brains, but all the millions in the world have failed to buy love.
March 8th, 2010
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Dating, do you ditch the old memories?
Do the dates of the past influence the dates of the future? Did that disastrous first date put you off the second date? Or did your first date turn into your first love? Either of those and subsequent memories can serve to cloud or enhance [...]
March 5th, 2010
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Dealing with dating depression
Some time ago, I broke up with the person I loved. I went into a state of lethergy and doubt. The only direction I could look was backwards and life had no joy for me. Friends said that I should live in the moment and stop soul searching. [...]
March 4th, 2010
Flattery is most effective when used with an element of surprise. Flattery is disarming; the most stubborn of dates will melt with a subtle compliment. For instance if your date insist on paying half of the bill, tell her or him how refreshing it is to find that old fashioned virtues still exist. If [...]
March 2nd, 2010
The good and bad news about online dating
The good news about online dating is that the choice is huge. It can be a real boost to see how many people are in the same boat as you and looking. The bad news is that it can be addictive and not everybody is honest about their [...]
February 27th, 2010
Does it matter that you are forty and still not sure about what constitutes a successful date? Remember the old adage it’s never to late to learn? Most of the messages we send out to other homo sapiens are subliminal. Roughly translated this means below the level of consciousness or sensation. The Art of flirting! [...]
February 15th, 2010
What worked and what didn’t? While a break up hurts particularly after a long relationship, you will have a lot of positive memories as well as the negative ones you are replaying right now. It is a good idea to be dispassionate and try to figure out what went wrong and if you contributed to [...]
February 13th, 2010
Amazingly an acquaintance of mine, who was on an online dating site, did exactly that. The man smiling at her from over the blue ”modesty-covering” paper bedecking her lower half was also the man known to her only as ‘P’ online! Neither person had the slightest idea who the other was.
So did she go out [...]
February 10th, 2010
There I was on the dating site when I got a message inviting me to a ‘live chat’. That normally means typing away and swapping mails in realtime. Now the clever thing is that you can turn on your PC Cam if you wish and look at each other face to face. Now I look [...]
February 9th, 2010
Divorced with kids. Looking back more than forward. People judging you. Not financially secure. What to wear? Getting lumpy in bits. Who wants me and where do I meet them? Hanging round a bar while a well dressed airhead drinks alchopops and gets too close for comfort is not my style. That why this internet [...]