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Dating is an adventure. Dating for the over forties is doubly the adventure with an added bit of baggage! It is advantageous then to have a little extra in the tool box, other than the usual. Why not try. The art of flirting, the very words evoke an image of a flash cad with a big wad! Not so, Use Flattery, the spirit of flattery is to look and listen to your date and find out what strikes you about that person? It may be that they have a job that holds a level of responsibility that requires a significant amount of travel. Hey, we all have to travel to get to work these days, but I take my hat off to the person who does a fifty mile trip before they even begin.  It would be nice if you registered this and acknowledged it as an accomplishment. Flattery is most effective when used with an element of surprise. Flattery is disarming; the most stubborn of dates will melt with a subtle compliment. For instance if your date insist on paying half of the bill, tell her or him how refreshing it is to find that old fashioned virtues still exist. If your date has a lovely smile, pick up on this, it will make the person smile more. Flattery begets flattery, if someone makes you feel good you automatically respond. If you confirm something to someone, that they were already aware of, but is often left unspoken, their self-esteem levels rise. Flattery is about making a person feel honoured, according to my dictionary. Surely there is nothing wrong with that?

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