Dating, do you ditch the old memories?

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Dating, do you ditch the old memories?

Do the dates of the past influence the dates of the future?  Did that disastrous first date put you off the second date?  Or did your first date turn into your first love?  Either of those and subsequent memories can serve to cloud or enhance future prospects. As human beings we are programmed to assume that the future will always work out similar to the past. Some of the things in life follow basic principles, for example if you bang your head against a brick wall it is going to hurt!

It may well be that your last partner cheated on you?  It is highly likely that they will cheat again; this is a problem that they have and usually has little to do with who you are.  It doesn’t necessarily follow that your next partner will cheat on you. You are the same person, but each partner is new. They kind of come with a clean sheet, don’t they?  If they resemble your last partner and have the capacity to stray, then maybe you need to examine your own motives. Some ladies love to be in love with bad boys; some of the guys can only love a party girl. So, why not broaden you horizons a little, keep an open mind, and don’t assume that all is gloom.

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