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Does it matter that you are forty and still not sure about what constitutes a successful date?  Remember the old adage it’s never to late to learn? Most of the messages we send out to other homo sapiens are subliminal. Roughly translated this means below the level of consciousness or sensation. The Art of flirting! You do not need to be devastatingly attractive, good at batting your eyelashes, big breasted or rich. What you must be is motivated to learn. So have a quick look and make a mental note… Make immediate direct eye contact, Eyes are the windows to the soul, they can establish intimacy, it can be caring or too intrusive, too much to soon can cause misunderstandings… Repeat the person’s name.  Repeat the persons name when you are being introduced. Do it again during the course of the conversation, and again when saying goodbye…. Ask questions about the other person.  It shows sincerity, it is off putting to go on a date and bombard the other person with the intimate details of your own life. Be light-hearted, when you begin to learn to flirt, remember it’s supposed to be fun!

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